AXL ROSE asked:
my ex wants me back, only prob is she has a kid now, i dunno why i broke up with her in the first place she was the nicest girl i’ve ever dated. but after we broke up she started dating this guy i know from the town over who is a fucking petafile, he only dates girls that are like 10 years younger than him, now shes got a kid and wants out of the relationship. shes been telling me how she always loved me and yata yata, but i dunno if i can deal with the fact that, that freak stuck his dick in her LOL. like i feel if im gunna be with her again, i want her to be like pureified by getting baptized or sumthing LOL. i dunno i do really like her and dont mind the kid thing really, i’d be a father to him. so i dunno ur opinions please!
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my ex wants me back, only prob is she has a kid now, i dunno why i broke up with her in the first place she was the nicest girl i’ve ever dated. but after we broke up she started dating this guy i know from the town over who is a fucking petafile, he only dates girls that are like 10 years younger than him, now shes got a kid and wants out of the relationship. shes been telling me how she always loved me and yata yata, but i dunno if i can deal with the fact that, that freak stuck his dick in her LOL. like i feel if im gunna be with her again, i want her to be like pureified by getting baptized or sumthing LOL. i dunno i do really like her and dont mind the kid thing really, i’d be a father to him. so i dunno ur opinions please!
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Be smart,keep moving.Think with the other head.
keep him as a ex
idk man it seems like she is just running to a familiar face when times got tuff
i dont think you need to get back with her
hell no…yuck..it would be on your mind evertime you go to bed with her….sickening
Sounds like a difficult situation!
The only thing I can suggest to you, which is indeed from experience, is that ex’s are ex’s for a reason.
If you broke up, then it happened for a reason…
I reckon she’s after someone who she trusts for support… Be wary.
Good luck!
Run!!!!!!!!!
Don’t do it…she is probably looking for child support or something….she could know how much you really love her and take advantag e of it….
If you love her, date her. We all make mistakes. Try to be the best father you could be to her son. Just because she was with someone else, dont let it keep you from what could be the greatest relationship ever. Best of Luck!
well definately chastise the WHORE! i mean after all you didnt even use your dick while she was gone did you?well? did you? what ?? you put it WHERE??? in WHO?? oh nevermind then.
Don’t do it. Don’t be a sucker and raise someone else’s kid.
Run away and dont look back.
( if I only give one serious answer on here - this is the one )
If you like her and you don’t mind that she has a kid, what’s it going to hurt to at least give it a try. You can make it clear from the start that you want to take things slow and then just see how things go. You only live once. Why pass up any opportunity?
I would say no. Judging by all the “LOL” comments you seem to have less interest in her feelings and situation than you do your own. Move on, it will be the best for both of you.
Don’t be an idiot. There are 3 billion women in the world. Why this one? It didn’t work out with the father of her kid so she needs someone else to pay the bills. Do you have sucker tattooed on your forehead? Run don’t walk away.
Don’t go back to her if you can’t totaly forgive her or it won’t work. You have to be able to take her back unconditionally. And a child is a big responsibility. Will the father still be in the picture???? If so, can you deal with it in a rational and mature way? Just points to consider.
listen to your heart, deal with your issues and only get back wtih her if you know that you can get over them cuz if you can’t you’ll be in a worse spot than you are now.
Sounds like your only problem is with that pederass guy. In your eyes she will forever be tainted. Obviously it’s something you can’t quite accept. If you can’t handle it, don’t get involved.
Please; now you listen to me boyl; from what I read, your ex was an as*hole and she still is cause history has a tendacy to repeat itself…..I say she is a true as*wipe…A douche bag…Am I right or what??
Her being with that guy bothers you, and I don’t think you are going to let her forget it. As for the kid…how ya gonna handle that when he looks like the “freak” as you called him and is a constant reminder, that he stuck his…………………..
DON’T go back to her as you will probably end up breaking up again
If I were you I would want to make sure I am not just a rebound. Whether or not you did care for her, I would just make sure she isn’t just looking for a nice shoulder to lean on, then leave. Good for you though, not minding that she has a baby. Need more people to want to help out with kids these days.
Sounds messy and my advice is stay away. Sounds like you’re not ready for this relationship and to be someone else’s father. Tell her you’re sorry about her situation but that you’re not prepared to accept her back (with all those thoughts) and being a father to someone else’s child.
stay away she uses you where were her love to you when that freak (smart ass) slept with her , the world is full of nice girls, take the next one . a new experience
This is the common mistake everyone makes .Once it is over its over.Dont ever go backwards in life.She has failed for the second time and is having regrets.And if you get back with her things will look good for a short time till both of you start to go back to the same old problems and fighting…If you want to play it safe go for a long term dating with her ,dont have her move in.Or you will be sorry.
Is this posting for real ? !!! Com’on gives us a break !!!
Well if you can’t stand the thought of her having been with another man, then do not go back to her, cause most likely whenever you and her have a disagreement, that is something you will throw in her face, possibly. Sounds like this is always going to be in the back of your mind. As for her, she wants out of the relationship, which means she has not cut the ties as of yet, ……….is she rebounding. She needs to first clean up her mess, by getting out of the relationship and not using you to get her out. Once she is out of the relationship, you two need time to talk, and take things slow, if that’s where you are wanting to head. You will not be able to pick up where you left off, too many things have changed. Get to re know each other without a relationship, just as friends first, see where that takes you.
if you couldn’t make it the first time what makes you think you can make it now. You need to really do some soul searching about this. Please for everyones sake before you do anything talk to a counselor or your pastor if you have one. Remeber its not only you and her now think of the child.
i suggest that you just let her go.
you are just her excuse for her to get out of that house.
don’t do it. unless you could go in to this relationship with your eyes wide open.
why would you want to be in that for, sounds like she would go with anybody as long as they will have her.
to many woman , why settle for her.
Did you two actually have any emotional ties between you or did you just have a sexual relation ship? If There are actually feelings of love shared between the two of you, then yes by all means try to see if you can work it out! If it was a relationship of convenience with no loving commitment between you the best thing you can do is keep on walkin!!
I’m one of those people that if a girl gets a chance, that’s the only one she gets. You are in a tight spot there, dude. Here are some options….
1. Take her back and adopt the child and leave the past arguments behind. Get a nice job and support both of them like a good person.
2. Don’t get back with her, which in turn will make her a statistic in the single mothers section struggling to get food and feed her little boy.
3. Become a hermit.
First of all, ask yourself these questions.
1. Why did you break up with her in the first place?
2. How old are you and she?
3. Do you think she really is in love with you? Or is she wanting you back just to help raise the boy?
4. Would you be willing to love and truly support the boy? It’s not his fault who his daddy is.
5. Do you have a job to be able to financially support them both?
6. Are you in love with her?
You sound like a really caring person.
Whatever you decide…..think of it as a life time committment. Sounds like this little boy may have been through a lot already. I bet he needs a stable invironment.
Whatever you do…..good luck!!
Be smart and run as far and as quickly as possible.
You got rid of her for a reason; and her having a kid is only going to complicate things even more.
And no offense, but you don’t sound quite ready to play stepdad, especially if the thought of her opening up for this other guy bugs you. (Maybe you should have held on to her).